In
a quest to look younger, feel prettier and have better sex, women are
turning to genital plastic surgery. And the look many want is that of a porn
star
LOS ANGELES (By Melissa
Healy, LATimes) March 15, 2006 — Since the dawn of its days as a medical
specialty, plastic surgery has been marching inexorably down women's bodies,
straightening, slimming, tucking as it goes, restoring the appearance of
youth to features sagging with age and smoothing those marked by
eccentricity.
Plastic surgery's southward expansion has now entered territory long thought
sacred. Today, the vagina and its neighbors — the labia majora, the labia
minora, the clitoral hood — are the latest bit of feminine real estate
considered to be blighted by age or otherwise in need of renovation,
beautification and rejuvenation.
Across the country, post-pubescent and peri-menopausal women alike are
having their vaginas tightened, their mons pubis liposuctioned, their labial
folds nipped and their clitoral hoods tucked. Most are seeking to restore
what plastic surgeons are calling "a more youthful look" to this
long-secreted corner of the female anatomy and often to improve their sex
lives in the process. (In some cases, women with few pretensions to
virginity are surprising their partners by having their hymens surgically
restored.)
Other women, bothered by the imperfect proportions of their genitalia,
undergo surgery just to bolster their self-image — a boost that often pays
sexual dividends as well.
"I was the type who always wanted to have the lights down low" when having
sex, says Holly, a 50-year-old medical assistant who recently had surgery to
trim her labia minora and who asked that her last name not be used to
maintain her privacy. "Just being comfortable with my body, this was huge
for me. I was able to be sexually confident."
Even as the small but growing group of genital plastic surgeons devise new
and better surgical techniques, they acknowledge the standards women hope to
achieve are set mostly by adult film actresses, strippers and nude denizens
of the Internet.
"I know what women want," says Dr. David L. Matlock of Los Angeles, an
obstetrician turned plastic surgeon who has been a pioneer in devising and
popularizing the procedures. He knows, he says, because so many of his
patients tote their husband's or boyfriend's magazines into his office and
point to photos almost as explicit as the before-and-after ones posted on
many surgeons' websites.
More traditional plastic surgeons and gynecologists may be reluctant to
endorse such procedures, but the demand is undeniable. Vulvar and vaginal
plastic surgery is one of the fastest-growing areas in plastic surgery, say
some in the field.
Many of the techniques have been practiced for decades by obstetricians and
gynecologists to repair childbirth-related injuries, and by urologists and
reconstructive surgeons who repair birth defects or perform sex-reassignment
surgery. But in the late 1990s, a few surgeons began offering the procedures
as a means to enhance the aesthetic appearance of women's genital organs
and, in some cases, to improve sexual function.
Today, in a field that assiduously tracks the demand for tummy tucks, butt
lifts and breast implants, there is no data to gauge the scale of demand for
these procedures. But there are signs that genital plastic surgery has
appeared on the radar screens of social trend-watchers and the medical
profession itself.
Next year, the American Society of Plastic Surgeons expects to begin
collecting data on the number of vulvar and vaginal procedures its members
are performing. Several practitioners of the new procedures, including a
pair of Los Angeles plastic surgeons, have been profiled on cable TV shows
pitched to viewers hungry for news of the beautiful and famous. And members
of the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists have begun
grumbling that it's an issue on which they need to weigh in.
But Dr. V. Leroy Young, who chairs the Emerging Trends Task Force of the
American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery, says the true gauge of these
procedures' popularity may lie precisely in the fact that, far from either
coast, conservative heartland women are paying doctors like him to perform
them.
Young performs about two to three vulvar procedures a month on women who
"would never dare ask the question at a church social," but who can now
learn about such procedures on the Internet and on TV. "It's right here in
middle America," says Young, whose practice is based in Creve Coeur, Mo., a
suburb of St. Louis.
Porn-star standards
Southern California — the seat of the adult entertainment industry — is
undeniably the birthplace of this fledgling field of surgical alteration.
In 2000, many Americans learned about a new procedure called labiaplasty
when a porn star known as Houston had her labia-reduction surgery filmed and
distributed to subscribers, then later auctioned off the excised flesh over
the Internet.
Sharon Mitchell, executive director of the Adult Industry Medical Healthcare
Foundation in Sherman Oaks and Woodland Hills, says few of today's adult
film actresses are having the surgery because so many are already very
young. But Mitchell, an adult film actress for 25 years before she earned a
doctorate in human sexuality, says the adult film industry's emphasis on
youth, as well as its growing audience among beauty-conscious women, is
almost certainly driving the upsurge in the surgery.
And many women take the standards set by sex workers very much to heart, say
doctors performing the surgeries.
"I hear it time and time again," says Dr. Gary Alter, a
urologist-turned-plastic-surgeon who operates out of offices in Beverly
Hills and New York City. "The woman says, 'I thought I was normal and I
watch these movies with my boyfriends and now I feel like I must be a
freak.' They feel they're the only ones in the world."
As the procedures have grown in exposure and popularity, a few mainstream
gynecologists have sounded the alarm.
"You're basically taking a risk for no or very little benefit" with most of
these surgeries, says Dr. Thomas G. Stovall, immediate past president of the
Society of Gynecological Surgeons. Stovall warns that with labiaplasties and
vaginal tightening, patients run the risk of developing infection and scar
tissue, which can decrease sensation — or worse, cause pain — in the areas
where incisions have been made.
As for the claim that vaginal tightening can enhance sexual gratification,
Stovall insists "there is no scientific basis" to support it. "It might make
it better for her partners," says Stovall, but the female patient is taking
a risk without much prospect of personal benefit.
Feminists too have criticized the trend. Judy Norsigian, co-founder and
author of the feminist health tract "Our Bodies, Ourselves," says women who
have these surgeries are taking risks to adhere to standards of feminine
beauty that are fleeting, unnatural and, ultimately, dictated by a society
in which men are fixated on barely pubescent girls.
Norsigian and others have spoken out against Brazilian waxes, a popular hair
removal trend that leaves all but a tiny wisp of pubic hair intact, as a
reflection of that fetish. In turn, by making women's genitals more visible,
the Brazilian wax trend has naturally led more women to take the risky next
step of having their genitalia surgically altered, she says.
"We live in a country where people are always thinking up new things, new
practices, new ways to make money," says Norsigian. "And if you can play
upon an insecurity, you can get a lot of people to do a lot of things."
But many of the patients who pay from $7,000 to $18,000 to have their
genitals nipped, tucked and rejuvenated aren't buying the arguments of those
who would portray them as feckless pawns.
"I consider myself a feminist, and I feel this is so empowering," says Katie
Sokey, a 36-year-old South Pasadena resident on whom Matlock recently
performed laser vaginal rejuvenation. "It was a way to take charge of my own
sexuality" after giving birth naturally to three strapping babies.
Why women risk it
Women seeking plastic surgery in the genital area vary in their
motivations, say those in the field. Many are prompted strictly by
aesthetics: They are, says Alter, "women who are in tune with what they
should look like."
But a number of patients, including Sokey, turn to plastic surgeons with
complaints about physical discomfort, whether from lengthy labia, weakened
vaginal walls or a clitoris enlarged by steroids or hormone imbalance. And
in many cases, these patients report their concerns have been dismissed,
played down or greeted with an unsympathetic shrug from the obstetricians
and gynecologists they consulted first.
Sokey had three children at home with a midwife and breast-fed them well
into their toddler years. She laughs sheepishly at the thought that she has
become a champion of vulvar plastic surgery. "I would have never thought I'd
end up in a Beverly Hills plastic surgeon's office; this is not my world,"
she says.
But in the two years after the birth of her third child, Sokey says she
consulted three physicians for symptoms that had grown more dramatic with
each childbirth. Her vaginal walls felt loose, she felt a "bottoming-out"
feeling when she ran or lifted the baby and the downward pressure of her
reproductive organs, urinary bladder and rectum had caused her labia to
swell so much that normal underwear rubbed and chafed. "Sex," she adds,
"just wasn't as much fun," and feeling her marriage was in jeopardy, she
went looking for help.
One gynecological surgeon told her she "had the vagina of a 50-year-old
woman," and sent her home with orders to do more Kegels, a pelvic-squeezing
exercise long recommended to reestablish vaginal tone after childbirth.
Another suggested corrective surgery and the implantation of a pessary, a
supporting device that would hold her uterus and other organs in place and
prevent them from intruding into the vagina. But the physician cautioned
that convalescence would be long and insisted Katie stop breast-feeding so
that the weakened surface of her vagina would hold sutures. A third
recommended a hysterectomy, which would have plunged Sokey into early
menopause.
Sokey felt the options that obstetrics and gynecology had offered her ranged
from ineffective to frighteningly radical. Her physical problems and the
demands of motherhood were taking a toll on intimacy, even as her marriage,
she discovered, was coming apart.
Sokey says she was overwhelmed with "the despair of going forth in the world
of singlehood feeling broken and used up, and there was nothing I could do
about it … I felt very old."
When a friend suggested she go to Matlock, Sokey felt a twinge of hope. "It
seemed overall like a gentler procedure," she says, and Matlock's staff
assured her they had sent women in her situation home repaired, happy and
hopeful. She went for Matlock's trademarked Laser Vaginal Rejuvenation
package, an $8,000 procedure in which Matlock uses lasers and layers of
sutures to make incisions along the front and back of vaginal walls, stitch
the urinary bladder and rectum in place, remove excess tissue and tighten
the vaginal opening.
Today, Sokey says she feels, simply, "rejuvenated." When she blew up a
balloon for her son recently, she did not have to brace against the
bottoming-out feeling. Her labia have returned to normal, making her choice
of underpants a fashion decision again. And as she makes the first tentative
steps back into single life, she says, "sex has been great." Matlock says
his colleagues in the obstetrics and gynecology specialties have treated
women — and patients such as Sokey — shabbily. He says he is listening to
them and giving them options that many desperately want.
"If these were male problems, [the medical profession] would have looked at
these symptoms and solved them long ago," Matlock says. His patients, he
says, are voting with their feet — and their pocketbooks because virtually
none of the services he provides is paid for by insurance. "They all have
gynecologists, but they're coming to me."
Even Stovall, of the Society of Gynecological Surgeons, acknowledges that
many ob-gyn specialists are wary of asking about vaginal function after
childbirth because women's sexuality is such a complex matter. "Most doctors
don't have the expertise," he says, adding "since they don't have anything
to address the problem, they'd just as soon not ask.
"That may be a problem," says Stovall. "But getting your vagina lasered is
not going to solve that problem."
But for every woman like Sokey, there is probably at least one like Holly,
the 50-year-old medical assistant from Southern California.
Holly conceived the idea that her labia didn't look right while in her late
teens, just as she became sexually active. Looking furtively at adult
magazines or at her friends convinced her "this didn't look normal."
For almost 30 years, her sense that her labia minora were too long
"constantly made me sad and not [feel] good about myself." When she would
confide the cause of her sexual shyness to a man, he would invariably tell
her she was fine, but she never bought it. Now, with her labia reduced by
Alter, "there's a little jump in my step because I just feel so good about
myself."
A range of normalcy
A plastic surgeon must always consider whether a patient's request is
reasonable or is a symptom of an unhealthy body image. To do so requires an
understanding of what is normal and what is, by society's current
definition, beautiful. When it comes to female genitalia, the standard of
beauty, at least, is an evolving standard. And that leaves plastic surgeons
little firm basis for deciding which patients are unstable and should be
turned away.
Matlock is perhaps clearest in his definition of female genital beauty. The
porn stars his patients most frequently hold up as exemplary, says Matlock,
sport "a nice, clean look," with a smooth clitoral hood hugging the clitoris
like "a piece of paper draped tightly around a pencil" and petite,
wrinkle-free labia flanking a "slit-like introitus" (or vagina) that appears
never to have endured the indignities of childbirth.
But that is hardly the norm among American women, and physicians such as
Stovall argue that before they reach for plastic surgery, women should be
made to understand that "there are a multitude of normal variations." In
plastic surgery, however, that's often a tough sell — not to mention a low
priority. Young says he often tries to reassure women who seek him out that
their genitals "are in the range of normal." Most often, he adds, "they
don't want to hear it. They want the problem fixed."
Young echoes an often-heard conviction of plastic surgeons offering the new
procedures: "I don't want to hear from a patient that they're doing it for
someone else, that 'my husband or boyfriend said he doesn't like the way I
look,' " he says. "That's a dead-end."
But he acknowledges there's at best a "subtle difference" between a woman
seeking surgery to increase her own self-confidence and the one who does so
in hopes of pleasing the man or men in her life.
Many women who come to Alter's office are more focused on improving the look
of their genitals than correcting a defect in their function, he says. But
he refuses to dismiss their concerns as a form of "body dysmorphia" — the
kind of wildly distorted body image that afflicts, for instance, those
suffering the eating disorder anorexia nervosa.
For women whose sexuality is profoundly linked to self-esteem, Alter insists
that improving appearance does improve sexual function, and helping women
improve the quality of their lives is worth the risks that come with
surgery.
"I hear people say, 'Who cares anyhow how someone looks down there?' " says
Alter, who performs about 15 labia reduction surgeries, one of his
specialties, a month. "My response is, 'You look down there and the other
person who counts most of all, your partner, does, and that's enough. People
do look down there, and no one likes to feel they're a freak.
"My view is that the operations I do are extremely safe, they have
negligible risks and an incredibly high satisfaction rate. What's the
problem?" Alter says.
The problem, says Mitchell of the Adult Industry Medical Healthcare
Foundation, is that women, whether they are porn stars or would like to look
like them, would do better to accept themselves — to "dance naked in front
of the mirror until they like what they see."
And those tempted to go under the knife after admiring the genital
proportions of a porn star should remember, she adds, that there is more
than just youth and beauty at work in adult films: There is considerable
cinematic sleight of hand.
"It's still a fantasy, still a projection," says Mitchell, who notes that
vaginal wrinkles or asymmetrical labia can be airbrushed as readily as a
pimple. "This is still moviemaking, regardless of how cheap."